Divorce is marriage's worse rival. It is the official end of the wedding vows. No more for better or worse. Both couples are allowed by law to turn their back on each other. The usual term and most popular term used during separation, is : irreconcilable differences. We all know that cheating bites the major part of the divorce cake and it still does in modern day marriages. There are certain facts one must know about divorce which people are not aware about.
It's about time we know and understand the unpopular reasons and facts behind most divorce cases worldwide. Brace up and prepare yourselves for this really unpopular reasons for divorce:
• Gender Related Divorce
Although a lot of couples wouldn't want to admit this fact as the reason for their sour marriages and relationships, gender still plays a role in the reasons for divorce. This is more rampant in the regions of Africa than any other part of the world. Men aim to have male heirs and have been oriented that any birth other than that of a male is absolutely insignificant. So if your parents tell your their divorce was in no way your doing, you should do a little investigation yourself ,before you accept their claims if you are female and mostly females as children.
• Women Who Refuse To Play Feminine Roles
As a woman who wishes to get married, it is expected basically for such lady to take up the most part of the house work and kitchen duties. In cases where by such ladies avoid taking up their roles as mothers and wives in the marriage could graduate into much more complex marital cases such as infidelity and Husband-Maid Sexual Relations.
• Smoker Versus Non Smoker
If both couples smoke or vice versa, the probability that they would be together is higher than when just one partner smokes and the other doesn't. It is more likely such difference is lifestyle would affect the marriage and divorce could be imminent.
• Most Of Your Friends Are Divorced
If your friends are divorced in the majority, the probability that you would join the club is more, than when your friends are not made up of divorced individuals. This is because divorce becomes usual to you and getting a divorce might not seem that bad or a likely painful experience.
• More Marriages, More Divorce
You really should say your marriage vows just once in your life time. The probability that you would keep divorcing increases with the more marriages you get into.
• People Do Remarry Their Ex
It's not rare but it's not a popular fact that people could still remarry their ex after taking that much needed break away from the married life. Why split when you would get back? Lots of reasons abound but most of the time it's usually among the middle aged and elderly or couples who have considered their children in the equation of things.
• We Can't Ignore The Social Media
According to a survey released by ABC news, couples who spend most of their time separately on social media rather than spending valuable time out with themselves to improve their relationship were more likely to get divorced. Infact, in 2011, 1/3rd or divorce fillings in the United States had the word Facebook.
• Those Old Secrets Coming Back To Haunt You
Usually, some long forgotten secrets and lies people must have kept away from their partners might come back to haunt them in the future. And most of the time this leads to a very unforgivable and disastrous divorce.
• Porn Addiction
The rates of infidelity have skyrocketed as a result of one partner's addictive need to view pornography at the expense of getting their sexual satisfaction from their partners. This in one way or the other paves the way for divorce.
• Did You Live Together Before Marriage?
Living together might seem like the best option to improve marriage relationships and understanding between couples. Recent study conducted on American men and women between the ages of 16-44 provides vital information that couples who were living together before they finally tied the knot, were more likely to get divorced.
• Did You Know About The Philippines
This is the only country that takes divorce seriously as an illegal means to separate from your spouse. Once you have tied the knot in that country you have sealed a vow that cannot be revoked ,or you risk imprisonment.
• To The Cougar Admirers
Men who get married to women who are older than them by two years or more are, likely visit their lawyers soon to get a divorce. In contrast to this, husbands who are three years older or more, or at least a year younger than their wives are less likely to get divorced.
• Who Blows The Whistle First?
In the United States, women were more likely to get fed up with the marriage first, and are usually the first to seek divorce than their male counterparts.
• Do You Have Twins Or Triples? Oh O!
Couples who have had children in their marriage usually see divorce as the final straw to their marriage challenges. Couples are more likely to seek divorce when they have twins, triplets or even more. In Nigeria, men have been well known to run away from marriages, usually when their gives birth to triplets or more , due to the shock of the number of children at a stretch and financial challenges involved in their up keep.
• What's Educational Qualification Got To Do With It?
According to Family Relations Journal, couples who are well educated are far less likely do get divorced. This statistical fact is not enjoyed by some African American women and African women in general. Highly educated women in Africa are more likely to have challenges with securing a partner for marriage. Most African men usually see such women as too feminist, sophisticated and just too intelligent to be regarded as a typical African wife.
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