How Long Can You Be A Mistress? Not Advisable at all.
There are lots of factors that could lead to a lady settling for a married man in relationship. To be fair enough to married women, most ladies who get to be mistress, are seeking to either intrude their family and be the woman in such a man's life or they are just involved with such a married man for material benefits.
A mistress can never intrude a home and break a relationship between married couples if the man himself doesn't give the consent to be used in such a manner.
This is one major fear lots of married women have to deal with. The constant vigilance, the worrying thoughts about their husbands whereabouts, searching his phones and accessories for any kind of clue for any home invader or marriage breaker.
Before we get to understand the consequences of what such mistresses are capable of doing to a marriage, let's understand why these women don't mind being the Mistress.
• They Are Moral Benders
They don't care about societal morals, what's right or wrong. They just need a man and they don't care in what brand such a man comes. Married, single, old, young, black, white, a man is a man to them and they want to keep any man who shows their love and expresses affection towards them by every means possible.
• An Absolute Sociopath
You could refer to such women as psychos in stronger terms. Some of this women feel good about themselves when they date a married man than when he is single. They rather share the love, and they seem to get better appetite from the love of one who is married, because they feel such men are more responsible and ready to show them much more affectionately experienced relationships than single men.
• Material Benefits
These ladies really don't care about the man and what kind of family he has. In fact they don't want to know. The only language such ladies love to speak is sex and money. All they want to do is make such married man feel comfortable and well satisfied sexually so that he can keep catering for their every need. As this carries on. Most of these women could eventually want to take over the home because they are not just satisfied with being called mistress and want the bigger pie.
• Extremely Desperate
Women who are extremely desperate wouldn't mind being with a married man, just to have that feeling of love and care from a man, even if she has to share and be called mistress. Such women are willing to play second fiddle for as long as she is able to take over the home and make it hers.
These Mistress Can't Wholly Take The Blame Alone . Married Men Are Guilty Also
Some women who become mistresses are usually seduced by these married men. First such men tell these women about their miserable lives and how hard it is to be at home, with their wive's constant nagging attitude and intolerable behavior just to get sympahy from such women.
The next stage, these married men begin to provide their need financially and also the woman in return, provides the much needed sex which he's been aiming for. To keep the husband - mistress relationship as long as possible, such men knowing that these women won't be long with them if they don't offer something more concrete, begin to make unrealistic promises. Marriage now becomes the topic. He promises her he would leave his wife just to keep her hoping and providing his sexual needs till he moves on to the next available mistress.
What Do Such Mistresses Actually Stand To Benefit?
• They get thrilled by such a relationship. Knowing it's a socially frowned upon they just want break bad.
• There is always money and comfort to be gained in such a relationship with no strings attached mostly
• No pressure, no commitment type of relationship. She is capable of leaving anytime she wants. The married man can't object to that or he risks being exposed or blackmailed. Shows that women who are mistresses usually have the upper hand in such a relationship
• Married men are much more experienced sexually than men who are not married as believed by such women.
• They feel they are more desired in a relationship when a man cheats on their spouse for them. This gives them better advantages in the relationship than in a usual relationship where love isn't certain.
What's The Consequence For A Woman Who Decides To Play The Mistress?
• They would always be the other woman. This usually drives mistresses crazy, knowing that they would never truly be in a meaningful relationship. Some Mistresses usually go as far as intruding in the marriage to try and take over the home.
• They can't have a real relationship and have to play by their married lovers schedule and not theirs.
• Society frowns on such relationship. Close Friends and family members are bound to condemn such ladies who are involved with married men.
• Such married men usually never marry their mistresses. Just on few occasions. Their loyalty is usually with their wives.
Could We Ever Blame Wives Why Their Husbands Cheat And Have Mistresses?
Some reasons why men end up having mistresses could also be pointed toward wives.
• Some wives absolutely feel that getting married is the end of the road and they don't need to look good any more. They don't watch their hygiene or even their weight. This is not what some men bargained for in their marriage and so they opt for fresher waters.
• Some wives nagging attitude would make their men seek comfort and solace outside their home and lots of women got their arms wide open to accept such men.
• Sometimes there is just no spark in the marriage anymore. Nothing to light up the fire of romance so they seeks the thrill else where if their wives does nothing to hold them.
• it's just not the fault of such wives sometimes. They just have irresponsible husbands and there's nothing anybody can do about it.
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