How do you convince her to say yes on a date with you even when she meant to say no? They all keep saying no and you've tried several times just to make your dream girl say that word "yes". That's usually every guys dream, to be able to woo any girl with just a few convincing words. The trick about ladies is that if they really want to have you as a date, you really don't need to do a lot of convincing, but not every man is that lucky.
Even some really nice looking and handsome men sometimes find it difficult to make a lady say yes to their advances mostly because they lack some other vital characteristics that she would really love her dream man to possess. Never make the mistake of assuming that because she's nice to you, she wants you. It just gives you an idea that you are in the friend zone and that's a good head start. Now your aim is to leave the friend zone.
So What's The Trick?
It's not a trick. You just have to work on yourself. The absolute truth here is that as a man, you would have make her believe with your manner of approach, that you're good enough for her to give you listening ears. Your first impression matters a lot both in looks and the words you speak. Never ask her out on the first day you meet her. Lots of guys make this error and backfires are always the result. Get her to know you.
Now Let's See Those Important Factors You Must Possess To Make Her Say Yes.
• Look And Speak Confidently
Being shy is what turns off ladies the most especially when they are not attracted to you or they've never met you before. Ladies not only love men who look bold with their gestures but also when they express themselves verbally. Men who actually know what they want in a woman and are ready to break the rules just to get it. You want her? Then go get her, or else someone much more confident with Alpha male capabilites would take over your duties as a man.
Follow simple rules:
-Fidgeting is a turn off to ladies. Don't even think about it.
- What are you staring at the floor for? Is she your teacher? Maintain eye contact with her through out the process of conversation. Be a man.
- Focus, Chin Up, Chest Out but don't over do it.
•Dress Perfectly
Maintain a good sense of dressing, you never can tell when you would get to meet her. Women would analyze your looks physically to decide on how much you love to take care of your self, talk more of caring for her. So dress perfectly in the best possible way as a man. Remember first impression matters and you might have just a shot at this. Be clean, look clean. Clean shave, clean cloths, polished shoes, clean teeth, smell nice. She's going to be looking at those little details you never even expected.
• Keep It Simple, Keep It Casual
Talk to her in a way that she feels she's knows you too well and not a stranger , make her comfortable with your approach, smile at her, if she's carrying something heavy, offer to help her. Make her laugh or at least smile, that shows that you're getting somewhere.
• Be The Boss
One thing that really turn ladies on, is when you are with your friends or other guys, and you seem to be the leader or the Alpha among them. Ladies know how to spot Alpha's easily and this attracts them on a natural scale and they really wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a guy just for his alpha charachter.
• Never Seem Desperate.
Desperation would scare her away instantly. Take your time, be patient. If she senses desperation (which ladies are good at) that could be the end or she would take advantage of you. Just show her by some other form you're attracted to her. Don't go all out emotional on her, be very patient . Showing desperacy is absolutely not a good approach to making any girl say yes.
• Don't Attract Her With Material Things
If you're sincere about dating her, you have to play it simple. Don't go about displaying your cars, home, expensive gadgets or jewelries just because you need her love. Women are attracted to material things. This would only make her come for the money and not actually for you, so that wouldn't be a genuine yes you would get.
• Pop The Question
Tell her that you would like to date her, don't twist and turn the statement in circles. Tell her directly without stuttering. Don't write her a letter or sing a poem to her. This is not a proposal. She has to see that you mean it and that it comes out from your mouth with true purpose and sincerity of heart. Don't be nervous about it or you will fail. Be yourself and keep it simple:
- just invite her over for a movie, night out, or dinner
- tell her you see her as the kind of person that you would be compatible with as a man because you both share the same interests
- you would like to be the man that she desires
- you would like her to be your girlfriend
- you would make her happy and not let her down
That's it, you're done.
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