Broken Marriages Due To Husband-Maid Sexual Relations: Causes And Solutions

BE VIGILANT

Be vigilant about your husband with your maid or even your baby sitter. No matter how responsible he might be or unimaginable it might seem, when his sex drive kicks in, he would no longer be the man you used to know. Men love sex and if denied of sexual satisfaction even for the minute amount of time possible, they would seek it else where. If you still don't get the theory about men's sexual cravings, look up this article on why men love sex and sex alone.

Great and average men who are married have fallen victims to the seductive nature of some house maids. Sometimes its just might not be the fault of both the man and the maid herself, several other factors in combination with man's sexual desires would have contributed to a married man having sexual relations with his house maid.

A maid is feminine also, she's got what you have as per feminine physical features or even better. Biologically, she is attractive, socially single and most of all submissive . The difference between you and your maid is social and marital status which you presently beat her to. There is an ongoing indirect competition between you and   your maid for attention from your husband. if you don't be the woman of the house and own up to your primary responsibilities she would take over naturally.

Maria Shriver was cheated on by Arnold Schwarzenegger with their nanny when it clearly looked from the outside of their marital life and relationship that things were absolutely perfect. Other well known public figures like Ben Affleck "though he denies the claims" , Jude Law, the Late Robin Williams, Ethan Hawke (who ended up marry her anyway), Mick Jagger, Jonn Gosellin have fallen prey to their sexual urges. These were high profiled A-Class celebrities , how much more the average man with the common everyday life?

It's very possible for a maid to take over a home. They know they are acting wives and second in command especially when you let that happen. Naturally, no body wants to be second in command forever.

What Could Be The Cause Of Husband - Maid Sexual Relationship?

There are several factors that could be combined, thereby leading to such an attitude by the Husband such as:

• He's just plain irresponsible
• The Nanny dresses sexually provocatively
•  You're having misunderstandings with your husband that have spanned for a while
• The wife constantly deny him of sex
• The wife's constantly nagging attitude
• The wife plays the power game and gives her husband the silent treatment and non caring attitude.
• The husband is just weak around women
• Non submissive nature of some working class women.

The rate at which husbands sleep with nannies have risen tremendously, but usually the wife doesn't  takes notice of this until it becomes too late.

Studies by marriage counsellor Gary Neuman show that 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheat.He says men are emotionally driven beings who want their wives to show them that they’re appreciated.

Most women who are victims of husband- maid sexual relations are usually working class women who are always busy and usually don't have time to take care of their husband basic house hold needs there by allowing their maids to fill in the very important gap.

What are the warning signs that are characteristic in maids to show that they might have something going on with your husband?

• She doesn't greet you like usual when she started working as a maid.
• She doesn't mind cooking for your husband and serving your husband at all even when house hold chores are compounded on her
• The communication between her and your husband becomes noticeably free and very informal
•She selects chores
•She talks back at you

What's the solution to this?

On realization of this, you have to act as soon as possible or risk your nanny taking full dominance of  your entire house hold.

• Send her away with no second thoughts you don't need your husbands permission to do that do you?
• Take over your house hold activities especially the primary ones that requires attendance to your husband directly, such as cooking.
• Appreciate your husband more and improve communication with him.
• Stop denying him sex else he would seek it else where with or without your knowledge.
• Hire a male nanny or at least a male cook

What basically attracted your husband to you in the first place was your feminine attributes. When you both  play masculine roles, someone sure has to fill in the gap and that's where there maid comes in.