The feeling of love is here ! You are here because you want to spend less and yet get the best valentine excitement that your low income deserves. You're really excited as a couple but yet the excitement's got its limit. The economy has taken its toll and in as much as you would like to spend to make the valentine's day as exciting as possible, the cost of this outings and fun have really sky-rocketed over the years.
It's also important to note that spending much money on valentine's day doesn't necessarily measure the value of your love. So partners who feel they must meet the requirement of spending heavily on valentine, really need to calm down and show more love rather than more bucks. You don't need to drain your bank account. That's suffering and smiling.
You could get the best valentine of your relationship, if you plan wisely before the actual valentine day. Planning is very vital. Planning is everything. Planning is sowing theoretically, to reap in the future. So:
• Plan Your Budget For Your Valentine
It's important to plan. Not everybody plans for valentine's day that's why when the day finally approaches, lots of people are caught off guard, men are either on the run, or nowhere to be found. Those little change you spend unnecessarily, save it, and watch it pile up before valentine. Unneccesary phone calls, spending, bar visits, live games and so on could be saved just to make febuary 14th a day without financial scarcity.
• Surprise Your Partner By Doing All Chores
Yes, but this is not an excuse not to take her out. You should have that already worked out. In order not to put too much focus on the fact that you would be spending less on valentine's day. Do the entire house hold chores. She would be extremely impressed with you. She could even be so happy , she wouldn't mind what you spend when you take her out.
• Get A Customized Card
Go old fashioned. Get your partner a customized card. Make it really unique, like a photo of both of you at a memorable place you hung out and include a lovely line like " the other half of my heart". You should know what should suit most. Make sure it's hand written by you.
• Make Dinner Yourself
Another really nice way of spending the valentine as a low income earner is to make dinner yourself. This would save you lots of cost especially if your partner is the indoor type, who prefers to be at home rather than join the crowd and the rush of the lovers day. You should be able to save half of the expense it would cost you to have dinner at a fancy restaurant.
• Get A Gift
Not just any kind of Gift, a customized Gift like a custom made T-Shirts meant for just the two of you alone and no one else. Other Valentine gift items that can be customized are key chains, photos, jewelries and lots more creatively imaginable gift items. This would also send a deep and intense message to your partner that they are indeed loved and thought about.
• Make A Music Collection
You could get a compilation of your lovers favorite songs in just one cd plate, and present is as part of the surprises you have in store for them on valentine's day. Your partner would be really impressed on how thoughtful you've been. This goes to show that you really know their likes and dislikes and also you have them at heart always.
• Write Something Memorable
A poem, a love letter, or you could even go as far as baking a cake and writing one of the memorable lines you both share on the cake. You could visit a craft man or a wood worker to make you something, anything with very memorable poetic imprints written on it as a gift for your partner. They would sure cherish all this more than cash, chocolates or a night out of partying and getting high.
Adopting all these ways to make the best of your valentine, would not make your partner happy on the long run, but boost your relationship in increase the chemistry you have for each other.


0 comments:
Post a Comment
whats your opinion?