Would you rather be in love and sad than single and happy?
When you tell people that you are single and searching, especially as a woman, you get silently or openly stigmatized by your status if you are middle aged. Its not bad to be single, happy and free with yourself. It's very important to keep your ears closed to what people might whisper about your status and focus on making yourself happy.
Before we get into how you can live single and free for a change, why don't we consider how good it is to be single.
What Are The Benefits Of A Single Life As Compared To Dating?
• You think less about others and concentrate on making yourself happy in body and deep within your soul. Actually you have a more improved health status than someone who's always bothering themselves if their partner is cheating or might break up with them anytime soon. That constant feeling of insecurity in relationships is gone.
• You sleep so well at night
• You never need to worry about the hassles of children or the nagging of your partner.
• More than enough time for yourself
• You are solely responsible for your finances. You never have to deal with over dependent partners or those who are careless with the use of money.
• You have less sex but it's more adventurous and enjoyable than when you have sex frequently with just one individual.
It's better to get a grip on yourself and embrace the single life easily if it ever shows up. It wouldn't last forever so make the best use of it while it lasts.
Now that you know the core benefits of being single, why don't you forget that your ex existed and focus on making the best out of yourself.
Make Yourself Absolutely Happy With These Few Tips
• Don't Be Jealous Or Envious About Other Relationships
Remember that no relationship is perfect and you never can tell what challenges others are facing with their own relationship although they might look like the perfect couples ever. Always stay positive with them and support them if they ever need your advice , but never be envious or you would depress yourself , which would lead to more emotional traumas.
• Get Busy, Socialize With Others
Don't just sit idle or a lot of thoughts would float through your silent mind. Keep yourself happy, busy and seek ways to get more social, with "social" meaning: being active with people physically and not just via the social media. In fact social media might depress you more , if you keep tabs on your friends and colleagues through this medium, without exploring reality.
• You Musnt Be Dating To Enjoy Yourself
You are free and freedom is everything when compared to modern relationships with its hectic challenges. Freedom is rare nowadays and lots of married individuals and people in certain kind of relationships especially abusive ones, would do anything just to be in your shoes right now. Focus on your life and every other thing would fall into place perfectly when it should. Quit bothering and give yourself the much needed chance to be happy.
• Go Make Some Money
With the dwindling economy, things are not as rosy financially as it was in the past. Like they always say, it's better to cry of heartbreak in a buggatti than be in love riding a bicycle. Bills need to be paid and money need to be made. It would surprise you intensely how your time and attention would drift away from love and romance as a whole, when you are bent on making money.
• Get Fit, Take Care Of Yourself
You now have more time to be clean, eat clean, be fit and live right. This is the best time you focus on your lifestyle and taking care of your body as a whole. You might never have this opportunity to stay in shape and live in good health when you're dating or married especially when you got kids that require you give them all your attention.
• Travel, Go Places
Rather than just stay indoors and glued to the TV, explore other geographical areas. You don't have to go on such trips with someone, but if you wish to, you dont have to be dating. There are even greater opportunities of meeting up with people and striking meaningful friendships taking trips, than when you decide to stay indoors.
• Learn New Things Everyday
Never let a day pass you by without acquiring some meaningfull knowledge about something or learning something new entirely. You don't have to be educated or go to school to acquire meaningful knowledge, about anything you desire to learn. Never let your day go to waste. Being in a relationship sometimes could drag you away from self development and then you realize that all this while, opportunities to learn have been wasted.
• You're Single But Not Alone
You always have your close friends and family to hang on to , whenever there's need to seek some kind of solitude , to create that emotional balance to fill up the void , where your date should have been. There would always be people to support you and make you forget that you're actually single. Yes it is not good for man to be alone, but there are times that man must be alone.
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