Most men in relationships see sex as a priority when determining the longevity or their relationship. Love, compatibility, and communication also matter but sex is the most determining factor how long he would be in that relationship. If he is bored by your lack of sexual capability or creativity, then his days with you are really numbered.
Do you want to be the woman who's giving him the best sex ever? Then the following tips are very vital to improve your sex life and sustain your relationship.
• Don't Be Secluded To The Bed Room
Start by turning him on from outside of the bedroom. The bedroom shouldn't be a zone for sex alone. Make him want you even away from the bedroom. It's called "foreplay" and you have to be an expert at it. You want to be creative? Creativity means that your seduction and sexual capabilities can be held anywhere and not just the traditional bedroom.
Sometimes suprise him at work, take him somewhere private, kiss him intensely and show him your new sexy underwear, if he tries to touch you don't let him, tell him if he wants you he would have to come get you. Dressing sexy for a private dinner, giving him a naked massage while you are half naked can also turn him on.
Exploring sex zones away from the bedroom is also crucial to making him want you more. Men get tired of constant an predictable sex. The bottom line when it comes to sex, be unpredictable.
• Be Open To New Things
Don't be too rigid about sex, by giving your man terms , conditions, dos and don't about sex with him. It's discouraging and he wouldn't be with you that long when some lady he finds by the corner fulfills all his sexual fantasies. Be flexible about sex learn to explore new things with him ,to make sex much more enjoyable to improve your relationship.
• Tell Him What You Want
Sometimes a man is turned on when he knows that he is giving his partner the satisfaction she requires. Don't keep shut and pretend that you're satisfied with the sex if you're not. Tell him what you want and how you want it. Tell him what makes you get turned on and how you easily reach the plateau with various sexual acts. This is very sexy and easily gets men turned on especially when they see it as an obligation to make you satisfied.
• Quickies Are Always Good
Having a quickie and not the regular love making is really good. Especially when you have sex with clothes on. Sometimes during work-break, your partner and yourself could settle for a quickie. Even at home ,getting undressed for sex always would just be too official or traditional when a quickie would suffice perfectly. Never forget to always tell him how you enjoyed the last sexual escapade with him. it keeps him going.
• Skype
It's really an alternative means in mordern long distance relationship to get the sexual grove on. Get sexy on skype. Dress sexy, act sexy and seductive. Your man would love it and no man can deny he's never fancied his partner turning him on through a distance via video calling. It would make him want you more especially when you clash in person, that sex would be something to really write home about.
• Sex Text Messages
Sexy text messages still work perfectly and cannot be out written, especially flirty ones. Guys love to flirt on the phone so make your sexy text messages to your partner worthwhile. Flirt with him whenever possible. e.g " I can't wait for you to ride me from behind like you did the last time" .Such is a perfect way to turn him on instantly.
• Experiment Various Sexual Positions
Missionary style alone during love making would definitely bore the hell out of him one day, if practiced everyday. There are numerous sexual styles and positions that can renew your sexual cravings and keep your relationship going for as long as possible. Doggy, Reverse, Cowgirl, 69 and several other sexual positions would easily outdo the missionary style.
• Give Him Surprise Sex
Sometimes you just might be out with him taking a stroll or even in the cinema watching a movie, or anywhere. Tell him you're not wearing any underwear and you would like him to take you as soon as possible. This kind of surprise would turn him on and make him feel the need to satisfy and show that he is a man who can take on a sexual challenge anywhere and anytime.
• Noise, Moans and Loud Sex
Some ladies cant help but moan and make a little bit of noise during sex, while others are just loud. This shows the man that he is doing something right and it's a form of encouragement that he should get on with it. You don't need to over do the noises and the moans. Be as natural as possible and always remember that you have neighbours around.
• Go Down On Him
Know how to give a man oral sex and learn how to be a perfectionist in the art. It could drive a man insane and it also gives you absolute control of the sex. This kind of sex makes a man feel absolutely good and accepted by his partner. Men also derive pleasure when they go down on ladies. Letting a man go down on you and letting him aware of how best to go about it for you to reach orgasm is sexy.
• Lap Dancing & Dirty Talking
Learn how to lap dance. Every situation mustn't lead to sex for it to be extremely sexual. Give him some lap dance and talk dirty sexy things while you do so. Say things into his ear like " whip my ass right now" or " I want you so bad, take me on you bad bad boy" and so on.
• Sex Toys Have Come To Stay
Modern sex cannot do away with sex toys. They improve sex and would make you crave for the real thing when it actually arrives. It could also help to enable some ladies reach orgasm in combination with the real sex. Such exploration of sex toys is a form of sexual adventure between you and your partner and makes sex very splendid indeed.
• Be Natural
Never try to gain your man's love and attention by faking your moans, orgasm and foreplay whatsoever. It won't be long for him to realize and shut you away swiftly, seeking satisfaction elsewhere. Be yourself, act natural and enjoy your relationship.